Listen in as Dr. Becky Bailey shares how we can put the "Conscious" in Conscious Discipline by noticing children's behavior. 👀 Learn more about the skill of noticing here: https://fb.watch/hNGaJBR-sE/ | Conscious Discipline®
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Listen in as Dr. Becky Bailey shares how we can put the "Conscious" in Conscious Discipline by noticing children's behavior. 👀 Learn more about the skill of noticing here: https://fb.watch/hNGaJBR-sE/ | Conscious Discipline®
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We often assume children only learn the calming strategies we directly teach them, but more often than not, they learn and repeat the strategies they see us doing on a daily basis. If we slam things when we are frustrated, they will slam things when they feel frustrated. If we breathe when we feel frustrated, they will be more likely to breathe if they feel frustrated. Continue learning more about self-regulation practices for parents here as part of Certified Instructor Angela Fraley’s free web
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We often assume children only learn the calming strategies we directly teach them, but more often than not, they learn and repeat the strategies they see us doing on a daily basis. If we slam things when we are frustrated, they will slam things when they feel frustrated. If we breathe when we feel frustrated, they will be more likely to breathe if they feel frustrated. Continue learning more about self-regulation practices for parents here as part of Certified Instructor Angela Fraley’s free web
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The Conscious Discipline Feeling Buddies are an integral part of the Safe Place. With the Feeling Buddies, we teach children a five-step self-regulation process that helps them recognize their triggers, label their feelings and accept and manage emotions. Continue learning more by registering to attend our "Self-Regulation with the Feeling Buddies" 2-Day Workshop in O'Fallon, Missouri, on February 13-14th: https://consciousdiscipline.com/professional-development/event/self-regulation-with-the-fe
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The Conscious Discipline Feeling Buddies are an integral part of the Safe Place. With the Feeling Buddies, we teach children a five-step self-regulation process that helps them recognize their triggers, label their feelings and accept and manage emotions. Continue learning more by registering to attend our "Self-Regulation with the Feeling Buddies" 2-Day Workshop in O'Fallon, Missouri, on February 13-14th: https://consciousdiscipline.com/professional-development/event/self-regulation-with-the-fe
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The power that comes from teaching children to set boundaries effectively at a young age has benefits that can last a lifetime. In Conscious Discipline, we call this skill a "Big Voice" to assertively and respectfully set a boundary. Learn more about how to coach children to use their "Big Voice" here: https://consciousdiscipline.com/getting-over-the-finish-line-with-big-voice/ This clip comes from our e-course, Conscious Discipline: Building Resilient Schools and Homes. Learn more and start you
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The power that comes from teaching children to set boundaries effectively at a young age has benefits that can last a lifetime. In Conscious Discipline, we call this skill a "Big Voice" to assertively and respectfully set a boundary. Learn more about how to coach children to use their "Big Voice" here: https://consciousdiscipline.com/getting-over-the-finish-line-with-big-voice/ This clip comes from our e-course, Conscious Discipline: Building Resilient Schools and Homes. Learn more and start you
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When children experience distress, it activates their attachment system, and they seek comfort from an attachment figure (caregiver). If the child receives the comfort they seek, they experience stress reduction. This deactivates the attachment system and allows the child to return to other interests and activities. If the child does not receive comfort, their distress persists. Quality adult responses to children's distress create a "felt sense of safety," forming the original Safe Place for in
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When children experience distress, it activates their attachment system, and they seek comfort from an attachment figure (caregiver). If the child receives the comfort they seek, they experience stress reduction. This deactivates the attachment system and allows the child to return to other interests and activities. If the child does not receive comfort, their distress persists. Quality adult responses to children's distress create a "felt sense of safety," forming the original Safe Place for in
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Listen in as Certified Instructor Elizabeth Montero-Cefalo shares how limit-setting works better for toddlers when the adult acknowledges the child’s feelings, wishes, and wants, calms by breathing to slow down, and then targets two positive choices. These steps can be summed up in the acronym "A.C.T." A = Acknowledge the child’s deepest desire and intent. “You wanted _____.” or “You were hoping _____.” C = Calm by breathing to slow down. T = Target two positive choices. Learn more in our e-cour
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Listen in as Certified Instructor Elizabeth Montero-Cefalo shares how limit-setting works better for toddlers when the adult acknowledges the child’s feelings, wishes, and wants, calms by breathing to slow down, and then targets two positive choices. These steps can be summed up in the acronym "A.C.T." A = Acknowledge the child’s deepest desire and intent. “You wanted _____.” or “You were hoping _____.” C = Calm by breathing to slow down. T = Target two positive choices. Learn more in our e-cour
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Over the course of this specialized, two day workshop, explore strategies that focus on how to confront chaotic situations through clear Conscious Discipline structures, calming your own nervous system and using classroom community to support the de-escalation process centered on connection, not isolation. This is possible by identifying the brain states and applying the appropriate responses quickly and effectively for transformational change long term. Join us and our experts at Using Neurosci
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The Safe Place is a sacred space where children are instructed, encouraged, and supported in attending to their emotional upsets through self-regulation skills we have taught them during teachable moments. The journey from unconscious emotions to managing our feelings involves five steps: I Am, I Calm, I Feel, I Choose, and I Solve. Learn more in our book Managing Emotional Mayhem: https://consciousdiscipline.com/product/managing-emotional-mayhem/ Or shop our Safe Place products that bring the f
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When children learn to use their assertive voice, or "Big Voice," as we call it, they learn a skill they can use for the rest of their lives to set boundaries. But how do we teach that to younger children who can't talk yet or with older kids in a way that doesn't sound "babyish"? Listen in as Dr. Becky Bailey shares more about how we can teach this skill to children of all ages and developmental stages in this clip from our 2022 Elevate Conference. Join us and Dr. Becky Bailey for Elevate Consc
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Listen in as Dr. Becky Bailey discusses the Conscious Discipline Safe Place and Feeling Buddies, which are designed to change children's inner speech regulatory system.  This concept is explained more in our book, Managing Emotional Mayhem: The Five Steps for Self-Regulation, here: https://bit.ly/3XeBKhL This clip is from our eLearning course, “Responding to Anger & Rage.” Click here to learn more: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/responding-to-anger-and-rage/ | Conscious Disciplin
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Listen in as Dr. Becky Bailey shares about one of the most important things we can do when helping an upset child. Can you relate to this when you feel upset? Or have you tried active calming for yourself when helping an upset child? Tell us about it in the comments below! See Dr. Becky Bailey in person on March 27-28 in Myrtle Beach, SC, for the two-day workshop, Anger and Rage: Planning Our Response. Click here to learn more and save your seat: https://bit.ly/40sGHUo | Conscious Discipline
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When families have the right support, children thrive.🌱 Caregiver Haylee Wilson shared with us how Conscious Discipline tools and strategies have strengthened connection and reduced conflict in her home for more than a decade: “My youngest has a developmental delay, hearing impairment, and speech impairment from a genetic disorder, and Conscious Discipline works phenomenally for him. I began using it with my older children because it was the only approach that helped my son who is autistic.” If
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Listen in as Certified Instructors Vicky Hepler and Jennie Gries share helpful strategies for when students are resistant to go to the Safe Place or practice breathing strategies when upset. How have you utilized School Family Jobs in your school? Tell us below! This clip is from our e-course, Building Resiliency in Uncertain Times (Ages PreK - 5th ). You can learn more about it here: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/building-resiliency-in-uncertain-times/ Learn more from Vicky and Jen
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Listen in as Certified Instructor Kim Jackson shares about the Conscious Discipline Safe Place. This center is where children can go to change their inner state from upset to composed, and it is the centerpiece of any self-regulation program. This clip is from our eLearning course, “Responding to Anger & Rage.” Click here to learn more: https://consciousdiscipline.com/e-learning/responding-to-anger-and-rage/ | Conscious Discipline®
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In traditional in-school suspension rooms, troubled kids complete their schoolwork in an environment where they aren’t a distraction to others. This quick fix doesn’t lead to long-term change. Now, imagine if kids with big feelings could go to a Calming and Recovery Environment (C.A.R.E.) Room instead. In C.A.R.E. Rooms, children learn about mindfulness, active calming and self-regulation strategies. They take these skills back to their classrooms and into their homes, resulting in a transformat
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In traditional in-school suspension rooms, troubled kids complete their schoolwork in an environment where they aren’t a distraction to others. This quick fix doesn’t lead to long-term change. Now, imagine if kids with big feelings could go to a Calming and Recovery Environment (C.A.R.E.) Room instead. In C.A.R.E. Rooms, children learn about mindfulness, active calming and self-regulation strategies. They take these skills back to their classrooms and into their homes, resulting in a transformat
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The Conscious Discipline skill of noticing has many uses, including helping adults and children develop their Power of Attention. Noticing requires us to describe what is happening without judging it. When we notice something, we bring it to our awareness. This allows us the opportunity to change the thought or behavior (if we choose).  Listen in as Dr. Becky Bailey shares more about noticing as it relates to the Power of Attention, then continue learning more in our online course, Powers of Re
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The skill that connects to the Power of Perception is Composure, and the heart of Composure is Active Calming. Active Calming allows us to begin to put a pause between the stimulus (triggers from misbehaving children) and our response. Belly breathe along with us as you watch this video and keep up your practice this week by being a S.T.A.R., using a calming mantra, and wishing well. You got this!  Want to watch the full video? This clip is from our 10-Session Online Course, Conscious Disci
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